I work and am able to do it on my own not needing a man…. he is 38 and I am 45 and own my home and have two teenagers part time and he has 3 teenagers once and a while. That is when he changes… he gets mean… not physically not even close but he says things that compare me to his ex wife or says things like ” I had kids with just one woman unlike you” He just starts saying mean things to put me down and he will just take off back to his parents home. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now and all was great in the beginning but truthfully it went way to fast to the point that he did not leave my side from the moment we first had sex.